It is the desire of every parent that their children should always be together, but this desire of theirs leaves many lives in ruins and in the end the result is still contrary to their wishes and often they end up killing each other. Siblings are not tolerant of seeing each other's looks.
You look at the developed countries where parents make their child sleep separately from the beginning and start instilling in the mind of the child that we are your heir till the age of 18 and as a result Self-confidence begins to develop in a child and by the time the child reaches the age of 18, he is standing on his own feet. are eating the earnings and the father is looking for a job or business for his son. Well, we will talk about this topic again.
Let us take a look at the impact of joint family system on the social life of Pakistan.
The main advantage of joint family system is that
Availability of timely mutual assistance provided mutual relations are good.
Another advantage is that in case of any emergency, leaving small children with family members etc.
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Now let's talk about the disadvantages of joint family system.
In general, women are more jealous than men. This is the reason why most women do not get along with each other, especially mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law, Jethani and Nand. Heartburn is a daily routine and this heartburn takes on a civil war situation and as a result, half or sometimes all the members of the house become hypertensive.
Some cases have also come to be seen in which there is a woman in the house who is a slave of Allah who silently endures every cruelty and abuse and eventually becomes mentally ill as a result of suppression of emotions and constant mental pressure. Then it ends with cancer. And the important thing is that one of the major causes of cancer in women is the suppression of emotions.
Oh, it can be any of the women's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but mostly this disease comes from the daughter-in-law in the house.
In this case, the man, whether he is a husband, a father-in-law or a son, is left as a poor sandwich because even if he speaks something to solve the problem, it is difficult and even if he keeps silent and watches the spectacle, the trouble will be his. And in most situations, men prefer silence.
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In all these situations, the biggest loss is the children, who are learning by watching all this. In the joint family system, you cannot train your children as per your wish.
Rather, in some places, the less intelligent mothers start teaching the children wrong things in their fights and forbid them to share toys and food with other children of the house, even to talk to the other children of the house.
Due to which children develop inferiority and selfishness and bad habits like that and tomorrow when this same child grows up and becomes a part of the society, this inferiority and selfishness will not only affect the life of this child but also all of them.
cause the deterioration of society. You must have seen for yourself that people who do not live in joint family system, take the best education and upbringing of their children.
While living together, the day also comes when the children born in a joint family grow up and all the characteristics that are inherited by all the family members also start following the footsteps of their elders.
When they are separated, but when they are separated, they sow the seeds of malice, jealousy and hatred among themselves, the consequences of which have to be borne by their children.
When the children grow up and reach the age of marriage, the parents should separate the child who is married, and if he is an only son and the parents can feed themselves, then they should also separate him, but if the parents are old. If they reach age and are financially weak, it is not only the responsibility of the children, but it becomes a duty to keep them with you, fulfill all their needs, do not ask them to die and serve do them with your heart and soul.
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